Did you and a long-time or short-time boyfriend just recently called it quits? Have you ever been in a one way relationship where you had feelings for someone and you thought they had feelings for you but didn't? If you did – and you are a sucker for wallowing in self pity, here’s one word for you: Don’t! You may feel like the end of the world if you and the supposed love of your life decided to call the whole thing off, but remember that there is still life after him.
Here’s 5 top tips I came up with on how you can effectively get over him and overcome your oh-so-painful heartache:
5. Allow yourself to be on self-pity mode.
Eat your heart out or go on a photo marathon of your good times together. Cry, scream, go all ‘drama queen-like’. Allowing yourself to wallow in self-pity is the first stage of the getting-over-him stage. Realize that you may never get that phone call again. It's hard but once you overcome it, moving on can be so easy.
4. Get rid of all of his stuff.
Get rid of all of his stuff, as well as any item which will remind you of your time together as a couple. After drowning yourself in self-pity, the next step is to get rid of all of his stuff so that you can start moving on.
3. Be Beautiful.
Even if you’re going out for an ice cream – imagine that there’s a million paparazzi out on your trail who’ll take photos of what you’re wearing. This will give you that extra confidence and bounce on your step. Always always dress to impress.
2. Treat yourself like a queen.
Go get a makeover treat yourself to a really hair do at the salon salon. Don’t go crazy unless you really want to make a drastic change, however. Just give your hair a hair makeover, do your nails, get a massage. Treat yourself like a queen and stop lounging at home wearing pajamas all the time!
1. Start going out again.
The only way that you can really get over a heartache is when you’ve already moved on. Start by going out again. Call your girlfriends and club-hop. Flirt with the cutest guy in the bar while looking like your usual hot self.
These tips should get you on the right track of getting over him and whatever heartache the bastard has caused! Lol…
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1 comment:
I for one am no stranger to heartache. It's probably the toughest thing any female can get over. I agree with these steps, although eating alot could possibly make you gain some weight you don't want to gain. I really don't think men understand sometimes how the female heart works and just how fragile it can be. At the end of the day men will be men.
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